I did not not have a great deal of time last night because of a social engagement and went to bed early. I only had time to read a short article by Lilianne Frey-Rohn called "How to Deal with Evil". It was part of a collection of essays in a book with a rather long title" Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature" edited by Connie Zweig and Jeremiah Abrahms (1991). The book showcases the views of various psychologists and other writers of a Jungian bent. Frey-Rohn was one of them.
Frey-Rohn thinks that whilst it is possible to transform evil into good, it requires man's "highest virtues" . He warns us that in the attempt to deal with this "numinous and dangerous opponent in the psyche", we must be most careful so that we will not be destroyed by it! To him, there are a number of ways of dealing with the problem of evil. One is to draw a circle around it and declare that it must be "sublimated" or "suppressed". Another is to make common cause with it and help our blind will realize it, as suggested by Nietzsche. The two approaches seem directly opposed to each other. Whilst the first tries to contain and divert it, the second gives our instincts full reign. Freud advocated the first method. In his later writings, he advised us that the patient's reason must be engaged and be trained or educated to accept reality under his "reality principle", by strengthening the Logos against the powers of Ananake (ominous fate) . Nietzsche took the opposite view and advocated a Dionysian affirmation of the world and a passionate amor fati so as to allow full expression to our animal-like desire for power, which he thought had been suppressed by the slave morality preached by the Christian religion for centuries. But to Frey-Rohn, both methods are one-sided. Both lead to a "dissociation" between "conscious good and unconscious evil". Too much morality strengthens evil in the inner world. Too little morality promotes a dissociation between good and evil.
Frey-Rohn prefers to follow William James in looking upon spiritual health as the state of harmonious unity of the human personality or "completion of human personality". James thought that a precondition for attaining such harmonious unity is the "unconditional acceptance of the dictates of the unconscious self" but Frey-Rohn adds, as a Jungian, of "the acceptance of the transpersonal", despite the risk that one can never be sure whether the "inner voice" is the voice of God or that of the Devil. The Jungian experience shows that there is no guarantee that an individual can meet the challenge nor is there any "objective" criterion about what is "right" in each situation because it is something very "individual". Frey-Rohn says that "the archetypal shadow leads into the utterly 'unknown.' " It is like an experience of the "God-image" itself, in all its sublimity and depth, including its good and evil. To her, such an experience "transforms" the whole man, including his inner "adversary" (his demon), and not just the "ego" part of his personality. This is a path fraught with risk and danger. A message from the unconscious is not eo ipso to be equated with the voice of God. Therefore "mere surrender or blind faith in the unconscious powers is no more satisfactory than a stubborn resistance to the "unknown". Just as an attitude of complete trust can be the expression of childishness, so an attitude of critical resistance can be a measure of "self-protection". We must always be careful about how much of the "dosage" of poison to accept: not too much, nor too little. We are as likely to be blinded by the power of light as to be overwhelmed by the power of darkness. The danger of "inflation" can occur in either direction.
Frey-Rohn endorses Jung's view that the "shadow" (both personal and archetypal) is "the moral problem par excellence". We must be "painstakingly aware" of what we do and what actually happens to us. Jesus once said to a Jew working on the Sabbath, "If indeed thou knowest what thou does, thou art blessed; but if thou knowest not, thou art cursed, and a transgressor of the law". The same counsel is given by Socrates,(!), except that this principle is now applied to our psyche, which, to Frey-Rohn has potential for both good and evil. However, this is easier said than done. We must simultaneously accept the values rejected by our ego and also recognize the value of good within our psyche ie. become conscious or "aware" of the unconscious conflict between the two within our own psyche. This means that the moral demands previously based upon unconscious acceptance of values imposed by tradition or dictated by our "instinct" must be supplemented by our " individual" subjective "reflection" and "conscious" acceptance, that the rights of the ego are given as much weight as the rights of the society or God and also that the rights of our instinct are given as much attention as the rights of our reason. This may be experienced as a "civil war" between the two opposite and apparently irreconciliable and "incompatible" impulses within ourselves. But if successful, the "conscious conflict between good and evil takes the place of an unconscious dissociation. As a result, unconscious instinctive regulation is supplemented by conscious control." If so, we shall be able to estimate more accurately the effect of our conduct on other people and become aware of the powers of our shadow and perhaps even be able to restrain it. The "secret" of a better adjustment is, curiously, to insist less that we shall be "good", to give up and ease a little away from our wish to be "nothing but good" and to "allow evil a certain right to live". Jung pointed out that the disadvantages of the lesser good are balanced by the advantages of lesser evil. Contrary to the general opinion that consciousness of the shadow "constellates and strengthens evil", experience has shown that the opposite appears to be true. A conscious knowledge of our shadow is a "necessary" requirement of responsible action and hence of the lessening of the shadow's darkness. To Frey-Rohn, what is true for the individual shadow is even truer for the collective shadow. She says: "Consciousness of the archetypal shadow is essential not only for individual self-realization, but also for that transformation of creative impulses within the collective upon which depends the preservation of both individual and collective life." The reason is that "The individual cannot detach himself from his connection with society; responsibility towards oneself always includes responsibility toward the whole." She thinks that what the individual consciousness struggles for and is able to transmit will benefit the collective because the archetypal adversary which the individual encounters in his personal struggle may presage and anticipate the collective moral conscience.
How to reconcile the two apparently contradictory impulses towards good and evil within the human psyche? Only by raising them to a higher level, by transcending them! The freer an individual is able to discard hard and fast principles, the readier he is to sacrifice his ego-will, the better are his chances of being emotionally grasped by something greater than himself. If so, Frey-Rohn says, the person will "experience an inner liberation, a condition--to use Nietzsche's phrase--'beyond good and evil'" We must be prepared to abandon our habitual and ingrained habits of thought and emotional attitudes and simply "trust" in the curative powers always already stored within our psyche, provided by nature before their suppression, repression and distortion by our early life experience and by our "education" and "socialization". It's a "resurrection" following a "crucifixion". The ego-will then becomes one with the will of God. She says, "acceptance of sacrifice is the sine qua non of salvation. A transformation takes place in the symbol of both good and evil. Good loses some of its goodness and evil some of its evil. As doubt of the "'light" of consciousness increases, so the "darkness" of the soul appears less black. A new symbol emerges in which the opposites can be reconciled. She thinks of the symbol of the cross, of the Tai Chi Tu and of the Golden (Lotus?) Flower. To her, the emergence of such a symbol often brings a new understanding of the conflict, a neutralization of the opposites, and a transformation of the "God-image."
Frey-Rohn thinks that "evil" may "attack us in the form of illness, external disorder, inner emptiness, or a shattering invasion from within of an immoral demand" but evil can also prove to be a means of healing too: it reconciles us with the central core of our being, with the self, with the image of the God-head. "Whoever attains such reconciliation will not only feel open to the creative, he will also experience again the tension of the opposites--this time in a positive manner--and so he will finally recover his powers of decision and action.".
She concludes with a poem from Rumi, a 13th Century Persian mystic poet:
Put what salve you have on yourself.
Point out to everyone the disease you are.
That's part of getting well.
When you lance yourself that way,
you become more merciful and wiser.
Even if you don't have some particular
fault at the moment, you may soon
become the one who makes that very act
not notorious.
It seems to me that everyone is agreed that man is not just evil. Nor is he just good. In the same way that we possess certain intrinsic good, like our desire to help and to nurture other life., we also possess certain intrinsic evil, like our desire to be violent, aggressive and to dominate others or otherwise to act unjustly against others. The problem appears to be that we tend too easily to polarize things in our mind into a simplified hermeneutical model of oppositions of black and white, of good and evil, of light and darkness, of above and below, of self and others, of "we" and "they" and push towards either extremes of the two poles. We try to maximize what we think of as good and minimize what we regard as evil for ourselves and our group. To me, the greatest evil is not so much the "intrinsic" evil in us as our stubborn refusal to see the world in a different light and to insist that our partial and necessarily limited and simplified model of the world is the only model of value and in doing so, do violence to others's views of and their right to live in the same world in their own way. Worse, we think that our own view is the most "perfect" or the "best". To me, therefore it is not the intrinsic evil within our psyche but our megalomaniac, solipsistic, narcissistic and insolent desire to be "perfect" which is the greatest evil. Paradoxically, this particular form of "secondary" evil stems precisely from this insistent, inordinate, unwarranted desire to be "perfect" or from this presumptious desire to become God! Only if we give up this desire to turn ourselves into God will the natural good within ourselves be given a chance to do its own job, along with the natural and intrinsic evil within us.
If we accept that there is intrinsic evil in ourselves and learn to live with it instead of resorting to the primitive psychological defence of "denial", and through such denial, deprive ourselves of the chance to work on it, then only can we have any hope of improving, but only improving, not attaining "perfection". The only realistic hope we should strive for is to be "better", never "perfect". Evil cannot be all bad if it can be turned into an instrument towards the achievement of whatever good we are capable of, given our natural limitations, by reminding us of our intrinsic and congenital "imperfection". The principal evil is therefore our stubborn refusal to admit our imperfection, our refusal to admit that we have feet of clay, that we are made of dust and will return to dust, that we are part of the animal kingdom which in turn is part of the natural world, which is neither good nor evil! Once we are able to admit that and to accept that as part of our intrinsic nature, then evil will no longer have that iron grip upon our soul! Then only shall we have the chance to be finally free! We shall then be free from our own worst enemy, our "self" and the "illusions" created by that benighted "self". Then only shall we have transcended our "self"! That to me, is the ultimate liberation which all philosophers and sages have sought to teach throughout the ages!
If we accept that there is intrinsic evil in ourselves and learn to live with it instead of resorting to the primitive psychological defence of "denial", and through such denial, deprive ourselves of the chance to work on it, then only can we have any hope of improving, but only improving, not attaining "perfection". The only realistic hope we should strive for is to be "better", never "perfect". Evil cannot be all bad if it can be turned into an instrument towards the achievement of whatever good we are capable of, given our natural limitations, by reminding us of our intrinsic and congenital "imperfection". The principal evil is therefore our stubborn refusal to admit our imperfection, our refusal to admit that we have feet of clay, that we are made of dust and will return to dust, that we are part of the animal kingdom which in turn is part of the natural world, which is neither good nor evil! Once we are able to admit that and to accept that as part of our intrinsic nature, then evil will no longer have that iron grip upon our soul! Then only shall we have the chance to be finally free! We shall then be free from our own worst enemy, our "self" and the "illusions" created by that benighted "self". Then only shall we have transcended our "self"! That to me, is the ultimate liberation which all philosophers and sages have sought to teach throughout the ages!
「儒家的孔子認為人之初應係性本善,但荀子認為人之初係性本惡...」Quoted from Yahoo.
回覆刪除Freud and Frey Rohn's study on human battle between conscious good and unscious evil or Vice Versa... Hmm... Do we need an exorcist? Or the exorcist is within our inner -self? What's the cure for the mentally disorientation? The topic is controversial and never-ending... Congratulations! You've found a never-ending topic!
[版主回覆06/01/2010 19:35:00]To me, it is controversial only to dualists: those who insist that the world must be divided into polarities of either black or white. In fact, the solution has been found by Chinese Taoist philosophers more than 2,600 years ago: in the I-Ching:black shades into white and white shades into black: there is black in white and white in black and Laotzu has amplified this idea in his less than 5000 words Tao De Ching!
I haven't read about that solution, say Black is white, and vice versa,
回覆刪除White is black...Something about the co-existence of life...
Something like without A, there'so B; or vice versa, without B, there's no A...etc.
[版主回覆06/01/2010 20:08:00]But must it always be either A or B when the two "appear" to be polar opposites. Can it not be both but in different proportions? If you have not yet read Tao De Ching, I strongly recommend that you do so. It's not that long and every chapter of its 80 or so chapter repeats that message, just in a slightly different context. Have you not heard of the law of antionomy whereby every pole may at appropriate moments turn into its opposite pole?
Wait till I've read the book...
回覆刪除But according to my understanding, the law of antionomy may have something
to do about the BALANCE between the two opposite polarities. For example:
10%A90%B, 50%A50%B, 70%A30%B... etc.
How about the TIME factor? The Fourth dimension...
[版主回覆06/01/2010 20:23:00]The law of antionomy can be stated very simply: everything will at some point turn into its opposite. In Chinese, it's 物極必反. When the pendulum has swung to its furthest to one side, there is only one way for it to go: in the opposite direction. When we have reached the climax, there is only one way to go: down. etc. and vice versa.
For example: 0%A100%B, it's now a one way street, no turning back, it'll
回覆刪除fall down...
This law of antionomy may also apply to people with multiple personalities.
回覆刪除Once he/she has reached one side Wholly, he/she remains that way of personality,
and there's hardly a reversal...
[版主回覆06/01/2010 21:05:00]We call the last type a fossil! Or a corpse in motion! Take your pick!
Thank you, sir! You've taught me a lot, and I've learnt a lot from you!
回覆刪除[版主回覆06/01/2010 21:35:00]Unfortunately all the things that I know about won't help me the slightest bit to solve such a simple problem as whether or not to help in a particular situation!!!! And please, I don't deserve to be any one's "Sir"! I don't even know enough to solve my own problem! I don't know you except through what you have written. If I may so judge, you're 100 times more intelligent than I am.
It may be just a case of 「好心被雷劈」, since that woman didn't
回覆刪除understand your kindness at all, and she returned evil for good.
Also, it's only 「好心做壞事」. You should stop offering futher assistance when
that woman got mad, 'cause further act of kindness would make the situation even worse than you'd predict.
If I still cannot ease your doubt, then let's leave this question to some other
greater intellectuals.
[版主回覆06/01/2010 22:53:00]She probably has absolutely no idea of what is driving her into that kind of behavior. It probably was something beyond her own control. I cannot imagine anyone who "knows" what she is doing would say that kind of things she said. She must have been under some fairly serious stress. It is not reasonable to expect her to understand herself. In that sense, she is just like a little child. But whatever the truth may be, I certainly hope that someone more able than I am would really be able to offer her the kind of help she needs. I'm all right now. I have "transformed" the problem now into an "intellectual" problem, not a "real" problem. It no longer has any urgency in it now.
I agree with your blog mate BLACK LEOPARD it sounds as a case of 「好心被雷劈」
回覆刪除[版主回覆06/02/2010 08:11:00]The irony is that it is a non-event. I didn't help! Intimidated by her looks and her words!
Between two persons with the right frame of mind, they can reason with each other. But when a person is in a delirium, reasoning will be to no avail. Say she was possessed by a demon at that moment, could you reason with the demon?
回覆刪除I think you are too much carried away by your eagerness to help and the failure in doing so brings up your guilty conscience. Yes, it’s natural that anyone with a sympathetic heart will not hesitate to help seeing people in problems ( 孟子曰 : 乍見孺子將入于井 , 皆有怵惕惻隱之心 ), but we can only help within our capacity. People set out to help with different motives --- either out of genuine compassion or out of heroism to satisfy their ego (of course I am not suggesting that you are). Helping in an impulsive or improper way sometimes may even screw up thing. Honestly speaking, sometimes we fail even to help ourselves, not to mention a person whom you know nothing about.
One of my friend’s brothers is suffering from persecution complex. He could do nothing but to resort to medical treatment for his brother. The brother has been under medication (including sedatives) but the side effect is that he has become an obese, dozing away most of the time. Such is the sad state of psychopaths and one could only lament at the helplessness of life.
Don’t take the matter too much to heart. I hope you are feeling better now.
[版主回覆06/02/2010 14:11:00]Yes I agree. Been reading LaoTzu lately. Can't help but admire his
insight. Sometimes "doing NOTHING" may really be the best, although
that may appear counter-intuitive. You may be right. But then you may
also be wrong. What if she does NOT belong to the "irremediable"
category. In that case, I would have failed to act when I could have. As
in so many situations in life, life does present us with uncertainties,
enigmas, ambiguities and dilemmas. We can never be sure whether we have
acted rightly at any point in time! Whatever the truth may be, not to worry. It's behind me now.